I am thrilled to post this fabulous interview with Michelle Ward of When I Grow Up. Michelle is a life coach and her blog is one of the most inspiring reads around! I hope you enjoy this interview with her as much as I do. Thank you so much for participating, Michelle!

1) I love the energy and enthusiasm you share on WhenIGrowUpCoach.com. Please tell us a little more about When I Grow Up and your role as a life coach. Y’know, I’m still a bit stuck on how I really describe When I Grow Up accurately! I call myself a Creative Career Coach, as I coach creative people into finding passionate careers, & because I’m big on helping my clients move into creative careers! The worst thing I can think of is putting a creative, artistic spirit into a “box”. Y’know, those boxes that existed when we were little & were told we should be X when we grow up (a doctor, a lawyer, an accountant, etc). Now it’s 2009, & there’s a guy out there that makes a great living being a LEGO artist! It’s true! So When I Grow Up is there to help creative people discover out-of-the-box careers that they can be passionate about. It’s about asking yourself, as an adult, “What do I want to do when I grow up?”, finding that, and honoring it. But hey, if it is an accountant, that’s cool too.

2) What motivated you to start your own business? Wanting to be a coach! It’s funny, because I decided to be a life coach from the exercises I did during a career change workshop I enrolled in at NYU’s School of Continuing Ed. I had finally admitted to myself that being an actor didn’t align with my grown-up values, & I wanted to find a stable job that I could be passionate about. Of course, I left the class with another unstable career path! But, of course, I do it because I love it, & ultimately I know that working for myself is going to allow me to build relationships the way I want to, & will allow me to succeed on my own terms. I took the hint that my passionate careers have all been self-starting, & maybe I shouldn’t be fighting that.

3) What has been the best aspect of running your own business? What has been the biggest challenge? The best aspect of running my own business is all of the relationships that I’ve created since I started. Even when I was in sales & customer service, that was still so limiting to me. Now, because I can blog & go on Twitter & connect on Facebook without feeling like there are a pair of eyes (or three!) telling me what I can & can’t say…I can’t tell you how many amazing people I’ve “met” virtually that I now consider my cheerleaders & friends. What a wonderful way to extend your support network & learn & grow from others! Also, the sessions I have with my clients give me an amazing amount of energy, & that is just above & beyond what I thought I’d be able to do to earn a living.

The biggest challenge is being a one woman band, especially since I’m still at my day job! Not having someone to delegate the unfun stuff to - like accounting tasks, data entry, etc - certainly takes it’s toll, especially when I’m working with a finite amount of time. I also have had to learn to accept the fact that I am a one woman band, & that some ideas that I want to execute will just have to wait. I don’t think I have an ounce of patience in me!

4) We’re tapping into your expertise as a coach! What advice do you have for others who want to start their own creative business? Keep the safety net! The more I work with creatives, the more I hear about The Leap: of being scared to take it because it might not work out & then their family will go hungry & then everyone will be out on the street. But there is no law that says that starting your own creative business needs to be a leap! It can be a series of little, itty, tiny, bitty baby steps. I’m all about creating Action Plans with my clients, so that the net can be taken away slowly, slowly, slowly until they’re standing on their own two feet, comfortably & triumphantly.

5) What is in store for the future of When I Grow Up? I can’t promise anything in terms of timing (see my answer to #3!), but I can guarantee you that there will be a plethera of low-cost group coaching available (in fact, I have 3 spots open right now in Operation: New Life Design! starting Oct 7th), an e-course chock full of career change exercises to do on your own, an e-book & maybe, just maybe down the line, a “real” book too. I’m also planning on doing free workshops both via phone & in person in NYC. As always, I’ll continue to blog a few times a week, send out my newsletter twice/month, & tweet all the freakin’ time!

6) Please list three random fun facts about yourself that you’d like to share with us. Only 3?! I’m so full of randomness, this could be 300 (1) I start every weekday with a dose of Judge Judy justice. Yup, I DVR the episodes when they air at 4p (if I watch them then, I find I don’t like ‘em), & watch them when I’m getting ready for work. It gives me the kick in the butt I need to start my day! (2) I would love to be featured on Public Eye in Time Out New York, because I want to answer the question, “What do you categorize your style as?” with “A grown-up Punky Brewster.” Yes, I used to wear two different shoes & two different socks in 4th grade! She was my idol, & I definitely get my love for color from her. And my Mom. (3) My husband and I were delivered by the same doctor, even though he’s 16 months older than me & we grew up far, far away from each other! Of course, our Jewish mothers discovered that without 10 minutes of first meeting each other. So cute.

Ugh. I’m disgusted over the whole NBC vs. Conan thing. I love Conan. He’s such a stand-up guy — he personally paid the salaries of the entire “Late Night” staff while the show was on hold during the writer’s strike. He deserves the best. Now that his departure from “The Tonight Show” seems to be a done deal, I hope he moves to a network that backs him up.

Just had to show my support.

Image by http://sirmikeofmitchell.com

Turning up the intensity on the beach theme by adding some tropical heat:

Always with thanks to Style Me Pretty!

It’s a week of beach wedding color inspiration! This time, we’re focusing on orange and aqua with a foundation of navy blue.

Thanks again to Style Me Pretty!

More inspiration for a dreamy, beachy wedding:

Inspiration Board photos and technology courtesy of Style Circle.

A little color inspiration today, thanks to Style Me Pretty:

I’ve been waiting all week to post this quote from Rebecca for my Teaser Tuesdays entry! True, this is not a quote from a random page, but it’s so striking and haunting an image that I’m posting it anyway! Think of it this way: it’s hand-selected, just for you!

A refresh of the Teaser Tuesday guidelines:

* Grab your current read.
* Let the book fall open to a random page.
* Share with us two (or more) “teaser” sentences from somewhere on the page.
* Share the title of the book that you’re getting your “teaser” from…that way people can have some great book recommendations if they like the teaser you’ve given.
* Please avoid spoilers!

“There might linger there still a certain atmosphere of stress… That corner in the drive, too, where the trees encroach upon the gravel is not a place in which to pause, not after the sun has set. When the leaves rustle, they sound very much like the stealthy movement of a woman in evening dress, and when they shiver suddenly, and fall, and scatter away along the ground, they might be the patter, patter, of a woman’s hurrying footstep, and the mark in the gravel the imprint of a high-heeled satin shoe.”

–Rebecca, by Daphne Du Maurier, (c) 1938
Chapter two, page 14

Chilling! I love it. I like to think Alfred Hitchcock was at home reading this book before a nice fire, and those lines convinced him to make this book into what would become his 1940 Oscar-winning film. I’m sure in reality some guy brought him the screenplay, but it’s a nice thought, right?

Sometimes I watch “The Office” while working at home so I feel like I have co-workers. And also because the guy who plays Jim is really cute.

Recently I entered a contest hosted by BronteBlog.com to win a free copy of the book Becoming Jane Eyre by Sheila Kohler. Not long ago I got an email saying that I won and today my book arrived! It is a truly beautiful book. I’ve never seen a paperback of such high quality. It has a folded cover that seems more like a book jacket and the pages have a deckled edge that is so quaint and elegant.

The coolest thing about winning the contest (besides just winning, which I rarely do) is that this was the only Bronte-related book on my 2010 reading list that the main library downtown didn’t have. The Chicago Public Library is unbelievable, and the fact that they had all 10 or 15 of the books I was looking for besides this one is so impressive to me. And thanks to the contest, the Bronte portion of my book list is complete! Thank you again, Bronte Blog!

Another Teaser Tuesday entry! I’m posting this on Wednesday but I’m shameless enough to change the timestamp so it looks like it was done on Tuesday. But at least I’m honest enough to admit it here for posterity.

A refresh of the Teaser Tuesday guidelines:

* Grab your current read.
* Let the book fall open to a random page.
* Share with us two (or more) “teaser” sentences from somewhere on the page.
* Share the title of the book that you’re getting your “teaser” from…that way people can have some great book recommendations if they like the teaser you’ve given.
* Please avoid spoilers!

And my quote:

“I stood in front of a photograph of Toddington leaving the Old Bailey, and said, ‘Oh, Toddy, we’re in such a mess!’ and then I cried, and then, in the odious way that these things intrude themselves, I began to dramatise the situation and to plan a story about it for The Rattler, and I wrote out the plot, crying all the time, and got into bed at three, and had no sleep till five o’clock.”

Frankly, I can’t believe I’ve lived my whole life without reading this book. It’s so whimsical and funny and creative and oddball that I know I would have gone all “kindred spirit” on it when I was younger. I feel like it’s the kind of novel that probably will change the way I write from now on, even if I don’t consciously think about it while writing. It’s deliciously clever. I’m about halfway through and basically I never want it to end.